Okay, so I started to leave this as a comment on my earlier post about privacy rights, and it quickly began to grow into a post all its own. Here we go:

I think one of the main reasons I wanted to start this conversation was to begin talking about how we, as a community, can take control of our information and how it gets disseminated across the wider cis culture and among ourselves.

I’m old enough *sigh/grin* to remember how long it took to grab back language and power from the talk show circuit. We have had to work hard to reorient how our lives are talked about, and in some ways are still suffering from that timeframe, even though in other ways it was good for visibility. Certain memes were born in those realms that, for good or bad, we have not been able to shake. One thing I think we should look at is how to start telling our stories online in ways that give us ownership instead of waiting until cis culture determines where and how we fit in online and then having to battle back.

Part of that may well include figuring out how to respect and carve out space for people who have to be stealth, but still need access to the larger community. The online world also gives us ways to provide leverage for voices that don’t get heard offline. Communities of color, people with disabilities, youth, elders…all of those intersections of the trans communities are starting to gather together. One of the responsibilities of those among us in leadership positions, I feel, will be getting a more firm grasp on the ins and outs of social media so we can insure a wide open cooperative space.

The development of cisgender serves as a good example of this. The community has grown this word, dialogued and even fought about it online. Now it’s become more user friendly in the offline world. Even I’ve started using it, and that’s pretty amazing. Two years ago, I had no use for it at all. These days, it rolls off my tongue and I actually understand it, instead of viewing it as some theoretical ivory tower stuff developed by rich trans folks with too much time on their hands. Our communities have dialogued with cis folks around this word, trying to do education. When necessary though, we have held our ground and simply let them know that whether they like the word or not, it levels the playing field and we’re going to keep using it. This type of conversation, and other discussion like jettisoning the terms “MTF/FTM”, are proof that our online world continues to evolve and effect our offline lives.

This is the kind of control of our information and stories that I’m hoping grows bigger quicker. Attending this conference was a mental quantum leap in online life for me. Even though I’m very far from a social media expert, I suddenly grasp a lot about how crucial mastering these tools are to our future.

Another thing I learned is that the people on the other side of our computers are still looking at all of this information we leave online every day as this great, amorphous mass they have barely begun to figure out how to mine. One of the lecturers pointed out that part of what is wrong is how companies are defining “non-personal” information. He used his own example. He actually read the user agreement on his Itunes. On page 35 of 37 (I couldn’t have done it), it talked about the “non-personal” information they would be allowed to gather from him if he agreed to this contract by clicking yes. It included:

Occupation, zip code, item serial number, and a couple of other data points I can’t remember.

Now, I’m not a data maven myself, but most of us realized that two or three of those data points in concert would easily give you the user. And if you started there, with some diligence other information could be obtained.

He decided not to click yes and allow this information to be gathered. Now there are features on his Itunes that he is not allowed to have access to. We discussed (via Twitter and actual “words-coming-out-of-our-faces” conversations) ideas about how to tilt information consent and sharing back toward end-user (us) control. Some of them were: creating simplified, one page user agreements, allowing end-users to manually enter in data they were willing to share, and more transparency about where the data would go.

I’m not going to start behaving like Chicken Little and hollering that they’re coming for our information. In fact, I didn’t even lock down my Facebook page until it got hacked a few months ago. Until then, I was a happy budding social media consumer. My phone and yahoo email were connected to FB, along with a few other things. When my account was hacked, I realized just how much of my life information was available through one entry point. It did startle me a bit.

If anyone is interested in looking at the Twitter feed from the conference, you can find it at #pii2010

Lincoln

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Out, Open, Closed, and In

Sorry for the absence, folks — work is a bear, ya know?

Ok, so it’s actually fairly easy work, right now, and we just finished two very successful efforts, but there’s a huge pile of paperwork I need to gothrough, not to mention the effort involved in setting up my office and getting the meeting room set up and fixed up and all that assorted stuff.

In any case, it’s keeping me fingers to the keyboard more for “important stuff” than for me to express the thoughts I have.

I guess that means I’ll have to make sure they are good one, huh?

Well, let’s start off with one.  One that’s been bugging me for a while: the complex intricacies of trans exposure and the risks (or lack thereof) of each of them.

And, in my general way, it’s come down to six groupings.  Out, Open, Blended, Closed, In, and Stealth.

And the best part is that none of it has a damn thing to do with closets…

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Privacy and Your Life: A Single Identity?

One of the themes I’m hearing over and over again is that we’re moving toward a single online identity. Information has begun to pile up closer and closer together. The Internet has been a point of learning and connection for the trans communities for years. We discover facets of our identities, find trans positive services, and those of us in more isolated areas connect with the larger community for support.

To me, the idea of our online identity’s solidifying has possible direct implications for the trans communities. We already know that human resources reps do Web searches on candidates, and the idea that we should “just not say anything we don’t want others to know” doesn’t necessarily hold water in our cases.

A lot of us use the Web for community building and information sharing. Here are just some of the ways I can think of:

  • Trans related blogs, especially from voices that don’t get air time in the mainstream LGB-T media
  • Compiling information about physicians, counselors, and other service providers who work with us
  • Rating those service providers
  • Putting out dates and times for conferences, support groups, and other community events.

What do you think about our lives, the role the Internet plays in growing our community, and protecting our information in this age where information is increasingly bought and sold without transparency? I see us as an untapped market, so part of the reason I’m asking is to start a conversation about how to guard and grow our information in the future.

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This week in Seattle is Geek Week (August 13th-22nd), and part of this week’s events is a conference devoted to exploring privacy, technology, and access to information. I’m here to understand what’s going on now, trending topics, and how these movements in privacy affect the trans community.

We have a great need to protect the privacy of our information for a variety of  obvious reasons. Information is currency now, both literally and figuratively. In my mind, it would be beneficial for the trans community to understand this and not get left behind. We are making gains in the legal realm. I think this shows that we’re starting to take control of the words and concepts used to define us. The next step in this evolution is to broaden this out and make sure that we begin to control who profits from our lives and experiences.

I’ll have more as the conference goes on…

Lincoln

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(Part three of a series on trans advocacy.  Part one spoke about changing the narrative used to describe trans people, and part two looked at expectations.)

In order to be an advocate for any group that you are not a member of and that you don’t have the intimate knowledge of from life experience, a person really has to understand the damage caused by the colonial mentality in order to start seeing where the boundaries are.

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Inalienable Rights: Perry V Schwarzenegger

There is a lot of discussion going on about the recent decision in the Perry Vs. Schwarzenegger case, and the related issues surrounding it.

Let’s take a moment and look at some facts, some of the arguments being used, and the realities of Law in America.

One of the current memes being circulated with a lot of fervor is, in the law, literally without any basis or merit. This is the idea that Judge Walker’s sexual orientation (which Judge Walker has never publicly discussed, ever) has bearing on his decision.

If Judge Walker’s sexual orientation had a bearing on the case, then the sexual orientation of any judge who would rule on the issue will equally have bearing on the matter. Which means one would have to find someone without any sexual orientation (ergo, no gay, not straight, and not bisexual) to decide the case — and there are no publicly asexual judges currently sitting in the Northern Court that walker sits in.

People who use this argument are, therefore, essentially saying something that suggests that gay people are less than straight people — less trustworthy. This is established by the fact that if you mention the above to the people saying this, they say no, that’s not the case, a straight person wouldn’t benefit or be biased, when the basis of the argument most widely spoken against allowing gay people to marry is that they are “protecting traditional marriage” which would be, logically, a benefit to a straight person.

One cannot have it both ways, and so that shows a logical, reasonable failure of understanding, and demonstrates an irrational ideation that gay people are something to be avoided, or intensely disliked, or fearful of (in this case, the fear involved is that they will cause damage to the idea of traditional marriage).

When one is irrationally driven to aversion (avoiding, disgust), intense dislike (literally, hate), or fearful reaction to something, that’s called a phobia. IN this case, Homophobia, which makes the statement regarding Judge Walker homophobic.

Now, the statement being homophobic doesn’t mean the person is — they could, for example, merely be parroting the stuff said by the absolutely homophobic leadership of various organizations.

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In Australia we have an interesting situation with our current election when recently on a GLBT(I?) radio program the Shadow Attorney General George Brandis promised more than the current government has on improving matters for GLB(T?I?) people by making a commitment to including Sexuality and Gender Identity (maybe, as the Shadow Attorney General counts that as part of Sexuality apparently, but will the legislation?) in federal anti-discrimination legislation. http://www.cpod.org.au/download.php?id=4336 and yet at 5.52 on he says when asked about the ‘Sex Files’ report they’ll have to ‘look carefully’ at the Australian Human Rights Comissions reccomendations even though the report in question had reccomendations far below the Yogyakarta Principles requirements and catered to only parts of the Intersex and Transgender communities needs and that in the most minimal way possible. And it seems that sex marker reassignment is scary for their policies on relationships.

In other words they can’t make it easier to get your documents fixed, to allow Intersex kids to define themselves, to throw out unneccessary sex markers on documents with all the harm they do in all facets of peoples lives because it may make it harder to prevent marriage equality? That does seem to be what he said.

And the reaction to the case that’s mentioned next of a Trans Man’s cyst being denied state medical coverage because he wasn’t classed as a woman anymore but the condition is classed as a womens condition is far from adequate.

Both major parties have ruled out marriage-equality.

Even though the Prime Minister is an unmarried Atheist and her party has a Lesbian Minister for Climate-change and a senator who is  in a relationship with a Trans-man they are so scared of the religious right in marginal electorates that they have said they only support marriage between “a man and a woman”, with the changes they made in recognising relationships they changed the laws that reduced the pensions of elderly and disabled and unemployed same-sex couples who of course previously have been paying the higher tax rates of singles.

The Labor party has promised to streamline the various states and territories anti-discrimination legislation but have not yet promised to include sexuality and gender identity and expression. So that the conservative ‘Liberal’ party have promised this is interesting.. ah but they can’t promise to do it in the first term of course.

Labor has promised funding to address the massive suicide rate of Gays, of Lesbians, of Bisexuals… but what about Transgender Australians who face an attempted suicide rate of 37%-40% far higher than that of GL or B Australians? And what about Intersex whom it seems no-one is even bothering to count? http://www.starobserver.com.au/news/2010/07/27/gillard-to-fund-gay-suicide-prevention/28743 and theres important stuff in the comments about the organisation Beyond Blue. Here’s OII on this http://oiiaustralia.com/australian-labor-action-tackle-suicide/ note the response they got from the government, where they give their reason the most at-risk groups were the ones left off a list of a project that’s meant to prioritise the most at-risk communities!

So it seems that while both major parties do want the votes of the Gay Lesbian and Bisexual community and are willing to compete for those votes it’s very different for Trans and Intersex. Whose lives they aren’t concerned with putting effort into saving let alone improving.

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This post is originally part of my blog Talk about Gay Racism, which you can find here.

Talk About Gay Racism

Monica’s blog, TransGriot, can be found here:

http://transgriot.blogspot.com

Monica Roberts is an amazing activist. One of the founders of the National Transgender Advocacy Coalition (NTAC), she’s been involved in making the world a better place for trans folks since 1998. An accomplished fiction and nonfiction writer, she focuses her writing and activism on increasing the visibility of trans people of color. She is one of four African American trans women to win the International Foundation for Gender Education’s Trinity Award, the highest honor that international organization bestows. Her blog, TransGriot, has been going strong since 2006, and is one of the main places I get my news about what’s going on in the world. I caught up with her on Facebook, and she was gracious enough to grant me a quick interview for TAGR.

Monica, thanks again for doing this. I read your blog regularly. What made you decide to start TransGriot?

I got fed up with the lack of diversity in the trans blogs at the time, the whitewashing of trans POC’s out of trans history and the ignoring of our accomplishments. That led to the January 1, 2006 birth of TransGriot.

Outside of your blog, are you writing anything else?

I have four novel manuscripts in various stages of development. All except one have African American trans characters, and I’m thinking about doing a nonfiction book as well.

How did it feel to win the IFGE Trinity Award in 2006?

I was actually shocked I won it. I have been one of the trans community’s harshest critics when it comes to diversity,race and race relations issues in addition to being one of its leading Human Rights Campaign skeptics, so I thought I’d never receive it. Happy to say I was wrong on that one.

Were you involved with IFGE prior to that?

I attended the 2000 IFGE convention to help present Dawn Wilson with her IFGE award. I also had a several year subscription in the late 90′s-early 2k’s to Tapestry (IFGE’s magazine) and contribute articles to it. From time to time I help with a double secret yearly project.

As a trans woman of African descent, who are your role models?

I have too many to list. I have different people I look to for different things and qualities. But the main characteristics of the people that I consider my personal role models are being strong, spiritual people who have social justice chops, unshakable ethics, intelligence, and leaders who aren’t afraid to piss people off..

It’s a well documented fact that trans people of color are nearly invisible in media representation of trans lives. What do you think is the most harmful aspect of that?

That transpeople of color have very few historical role models, and too many falsehoods, misconceptions, and faith based lies that we have to overcome as we do trans advocacy work in our communities.

What was the first activism project you ever worked on?

I took a trip to DC for the 1998 GenderPac Lobby Day.

You’re one of the founding members of NTAC. Are you still active with them?

I take part in their lobby days when I’m needed as Lobby Director Vice Chair emeritus.

When you were younger, what did you think you would be doing by this point in life?

I’m a political junkie, and when I wasn’t wrestling with the gender issues, dreamed about one day sitting on either the Houston City Council, in the Texas legislature or in Congress. It never occurred to me that I’d be considered a historical figure as a African descended trans activist and writer.

Who are some of the up and coming trans leaders you’ve got your eye on?

There are probably more than a few that haven’t popped up on my radar screen because they’re toiling locally or doing great work on college campuses. Peeps who I do have my eye are Cydne Kimbrough, who has been doing great work in Baltimore for decades. Brittany Novotny who is currently running for the Oklahoma legislature, Maria Roman in LA stepping up for trans Latinas, and Amanda Morgan in New York.

Internationally I like Naomi Fontanos, the current chair of STRAP (Society of Transsexual Women of the Philippines), Sass Rogando Sasot, Victor Mukasa in Uganda, Leona Lo in Singapore, and Audrey Mbugua in Kenya.

One who may be a surprise to you is Isis King. She has that potential if she wants it. She has the intelligence, the public speaking skills, the name recognition and the model quality looks to go with it.

This is great, Monica. Thanks for taking time out of your busy schedule to give me and my readers a chance to get to know you and find out more about your activism and your blog.

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With the Australian election heating up, with Labor now falling behind in some polls, with a distinct chance of a return to a Liberal Party government, with the outrahe about Australias first Woman Prime Minister, first Athiest Prime Minister choosing against same-sex marriage and with even first openly homosexual cabinet minister Penny Wong supporting the same-sex marriage ban decision and with Labor not even willing to commit to including sexuality and gender identity in their federalisation of Australian states diverse anti-discrimination laws it’s worth noticing that the Liberal Party won’t even agree not to use hate-based political ads!
 
TASMANIAN GAY AND LESBIAN RIGHTS GROUP
 
Media Release
Saturday July 31st 2010
LIBS FAIL TO SIGN ELECTION ANTI-HATE PLEDGE
DELANEY VOWS TO CHALLENGE ANY ELECTION HATE MATERIALS
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The Liberal Party has again failed to sign a pledge against election hate, despite all other major parties and independents signing the pledge today at Salamanca Market in Hobart.
Today’s pledge signing was a response to election advertising authorised by the Liberal Party and members of the Exclusive Brethren during the 2006 state election, and the Liberal Party and Timber Communities Australia during the 2007 federal election, which vehemently attacked the human rights of gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and intersex (GLBTI) people.
Human rights campaigner, Martine Delaney, who has challenged anti-GLBTI election material before the State Anti-Discrimination Tribunal, securing apologies from members of the Exclusive Brethren and from Timber Communities Australia, said the pledge is designed to set a higher standard for electioneering.
“By showing that a wide range of parties and independents oppose hatred in election campaigns I hope we can bring an end to the kind of electioneering that inflames prejudice against people who already have a hard enough time of it”, she said.
“The Liberal Party has never committed to signing the pledge, and it is deeply disappointing that this election will be no exception.”
“I profoundly hope there will be no material published during this election that hatefully attacks GLBTI people and our human rights, but if there is, I will challenge it before the Anti-Discrimination Tribunal just as I have in the past”, Ms Delaney said.
The Tasmanian Gay and Lesbian Rights Group’s anti-hate pledge was signed by Christine Milne for the Australian Greens, Jonathan Jackson for the ALP, Andrew Wilkie (Indep) and Mel Barnes for the Socialist Alliance. The Australian Democrats, who registered after the pledge was printed, signed a pledge which not only commits the party not to authourise hateful material but to enact stronger laws to combat incitement to hatred.
The Tasmanian Gay and Lesbian Rights Group’s anti-hate pledge was also a feature of 2007 federal election campaign in Tasmanian when it was also signed by all parties except the Liberal Party. 
The TGLRG will also conduct an election forum for the GLBTI community in Hobart on Tuesday evening at which all political parties will be represented including the Liberal Party.
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UPDATE: The date and time of the protest mentioned below has changed. From Andy Thayer at Pam’s House Blend,
The August 4th banquet that was to have led off AFTAH’s anti-gay “academy” has apparently been canceled. Therefore, our protest that was scheduled for that night has been moved to the following night at the site of the “academy”:

7:30 PM Sharp
Thursday, August 5th
In front of “Christian Liberty Academy”
502 W. Euclid Avenue, Arlington Heights, IL

For those traveling from Chicago, please meet in front of the Ogilvie Transportation Center Metra Station, 500 W. Madison Street, Chicago at 6 PM Sharp — just look for the Pride flag!

For more info, email or call the Gay Liberation Network at LGBTliberation@aol.com or 773.209.1187 (which is also day-of cell phone contact).
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It seems the United States may slowly be turning around in its attitudes about gay and lesbian acceptance. Polls and popular media are all shifting to a more Gay/Lesbian friendly attitude, one that has the “religious” right wing homo haters rushing towards their fainting couches. Of course, the rhetoric from that group of propagandists has become more and more strident as their mendacious veneer of respectability wears thin and their obvious animosity becomes more and more apparent. They are getting more and more desperate, it seems, as their cash cow begins to run dry.

Some weeks ago, Peter Labarbera, from the “Americans for Truth about Homosexuality” hit upon a new scheme to separate his followers from their cash. He introduced an “Americans For Truth Academy” that, for a fee of course, would teach adults and kids as young as 14 how to engage in his brand of bigotry.

“Adults: $149 for 3-day conference; Single day rate: $50/day; Married couples discount: $199 for full conference; Youth: $99 (scholarships available to attendees ages 14-25)”

Two of the scheduled seminars in this laff fest are:

- Matt Barber, Liberty Counsel; Board Member, AFTAH: “Masculine Christianity: a non-defensive approach to the Culture War over homosexuality”

- Arthur Goldberg, JONAH (Jews Offering New Alternatives to Homosexuality: “The gender confusion agenda: ‘transgender rights’”

First of all, I have to question how and where “masculine Christianity” is defined in the Bible, as opposed to “feminine Christianity.” Isn’t pretty much all of the Bible written by, for and generally about men? Calling his brand of Christianity “masculine” smacks of overcompensation and misogyny, two things that we are all too familiar with as motivations for hate crimes. In addition, what could “non-defensive” mean except “offensive?” The dog whistles are too loud in this workshop advertisement to ignore. I hope and pray the effect of its teaching doesn’t manifest itself into violence.  If, God forbid, violence is perpetrated by someone who has attended this seminar, I certainly hope accountability will be applied to the fullest.

After lunch on the second day, (“Light lunch provided” – for $50 per day they damn well better feed their “students.” I wonder what they will spike the Koolaid with this time?) we have Arthur Goldberg talking about,“The gender confusion agenda: ‘transgender rights.’” I was unfamiliar with Mr. Goldberg and his qualifications regarding his knowledge of trans people. AFTAH doesn’t have any biographical information on him, or any of the other presenters, other than the groups they are part of so I went a’searchin’.

It seems that Mr. Goldberg has little apparent knowledge, education or experience with trans people and their life experiences. The AFTAH website mentions that he’s the founder of JONAH, (Jews Offering New Alternatives to Homosexuality) a Jewish ex-gay ministry. It turns out he started this organization in 1999, after finishing his probation. What was he convicted of? Karen Ocamb tells us,

An investigation by Truth Wins Out, an antigay-watching site headed by longtime Religious Right watcher Wayne Besen and the South Florida Gay News revealed that Arthur Goldberg, co-foundeder of Jews Offering New Alternatives to Homosexuality (JONAH) and president of Positive Alternatives to Homosexuality (PATH), is also “Abba Dabba Do,” who the investigators say was “the Wall Street criminal mastermind who was convicted in 1987 and went to prison for ”fraud of spectacular scope” that included “bilking poor communities with complicated bond schemes.”

Wayne Besen, at Truth Wins Out tells us a bit more,

Upon completing his parole, Goldberg dropped his conspicuous middle name, Abba, and co-founded Jews Offering New Alternatives to Homosexuality (JONAH) in 1999. He is currently the president of Positive Alternatives to Homosexuality (PATH), an umbrella group for “ex-gay” referrals and the Executive Secretary of the notorious National Association for Research and Therapy of Homosexuality (NARTH). He is also the President of Congregation Mount Sinai, a temple in Jersey City and a Principal for the International Center for Gender Affirming Processes (CGAP). Goldberg is a key ex-gay industry insider and viewed as an architect of its strategy and message machine.

So it seems this guy is qualified to talk about trans people – as long as honesty and real knowledge aren’t required. Was J. Michael Bailey unavailable? At least he can claim to have done some research about trans people, even if it is just on a few that went to the same bars he did. Hmm, must be nice work if ya kin getit!

Peter Labarbera, calls the trans community, “the crazy cousin of the ‘gay’ movement.” I guess he figures we’re so incapacitated we won’t be able to recognize and call him on the brand of crap he’s peddling. A protest is being planned to take place outside the location of this farce on August 4th. We need a sizable part of that protest come from the trans community. More info can be found at this facebook page. I wish I could be there in body as well as in spirit.

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