Okay, so I started to leave this as a comment on my earlier post about privacy rights, and it quickly began to grow into a post all its own. Here we go:

I think one of the main reasons I wanted to start this conversation was to begin talking about how we, as a community, can take control of our information and how it gets disseminated across the wider cis culture and among ourselves.

I’m old enough *sigh/grin* to remember how long it took to grab back language and power from the talk show circuit. We have had to work hard to reorient how our lives are talked about, and in some ways are still suffering from that timeframe, even though in other ways it was good for visibility. Certain memes were born in those realms that, for good or bad, we have not been able to shake. One thing I think we should look at is how to start telling our stories online in ways that give us ownership instead of waiting until cis culture determines where and how we fit in online and then having to battle back.

Part of that may well include figuring out how to respect and carve out space for people who have to be stealth, but still need access to the larger community. The online world also gives us ways to provide leverage for voices that don’t get heard offline. Communities of color, people with disabilities, youth, elders…all of those intersections of the trans communities are starting to gather together. One of the responsibilities of those among us in leadership positions, I feel, will be getting a more firm grasp on the ins and outs of social media so we can insure a wide open cooperative space.

The development of cisgender serves as a good example of this. The community has grown this word, dialogued and even fought about it online. Now it’s become more user friendly in the offline world. Even I’ve started using it, and that’s pretty amazing. Two years ago, I had no use for it at all. These days, it rolls off my tongue and I actually understand it, instead of viewing it as some theoretical ivory tower stuff developed by rich trans folks with too much time on their hands. Our communities have dialogued with cis folks around this word, trying to do education. When necessary though, we have held our ground and simply let them know that whether they like the word or not, it levels the playing field and we’re going to keep using it. This type of conversation, and other discussion like jettisoning the terms “MTF/FTM”, are proof that our online world continues to evolve and effect our offline lives.

This is the kind of control of our information and stories that I’m hoping grows bigger quicker. Attending this conference was a mental quantum leap in online life for me. Even though I’m very far from a social media expert, I suddenly grasp a lot about how crucial mastering these tools are to our future.

Another thing I learned is that the people on the other side of our computers are still looking at all of this information we leave online every day as this great, amorphous mass they have barely begun to figure out how to mine. One of the lecturers pointed out that part of what is wrong is how companies are defining “non-personal” information. He used his own example. He actually read the user agreement on his Itunes. On page 35 of 37 (I couldn’t have done it), it talked about the “non-personal” information they would be allowed to gather from him if he agreed to this contract by clicking yes. It included:

Occupation, zip code, item serial number, and a couple of other data points I can’t remember.

Now, I’m not a data maven myself, but most of us realized that two or three of those data points in concert would easily give you the user. And if you started there, with some diligence other information could be obtained.

He decided not to click yes and allow this information to be gathered. Now there are features on his Itunes that he is not allowed to have access to. We discussed (via Twitter and actual “words-coming-out-of-our-faces” conversations) ideas about how to tilt information consent and sharing back toward end-user (us) control. Some of them were: creating simplified, one page user agreements, allowing end-users to manually enter in data they were willing to share, and more transparency about where the data would go.

I’m not going to start behaving like Chicken Little and hollering that they’re coming for our information. In fact, I didn’t even lock down my Facebook page until it got hacked a few months ago. Until then, I was a happy budding social media consumer. My phone and yahoo email were connected to FB, along with a few other things. When my account was hacked, I realized just how much of my life information was available through one entry point. It did startle me a bit.

If anyone is interested in looking at the Twitter feed from the conference, you can find it at #pii2010

Lincoln

Rating 3.00 out of 5
Tagged with:
 

Privacy and Your Life: A Single Identity?

One of the themes I’m hearing over and over again is that we’re moving toward a single online identity. Information has begun to pile up closer and closer together. The Internet has been a point of learning and connection for the trans communities for years. We discover facets of our identities, find trans positive services, and those of us in more isolated areas connect with the larger community for support.

To me, the idea of our online identity’s solidifying has possible direct implications for the trans communities. We already know that human resources reps do Web searches on candidates, and the idea that we should “just not say anything we don’t want others to know” doesn’t necessarily hold water in our cases.

A lot of us use the Web for community building and information sharing. Here are just some of the ways I can think of:

  • Trans related blogs, especially from voices that don’t get air time in the mainstream LGB-T media
  • Compiling information about physicians, counselors, and other service providers who work with us
  • Rating those service providers
  • Putting out dates and times for conferences, support groups, and other community events.

What do you think about our lives, the role the Internet plays in growing our community, and protecting our information in this age where information is increasingly bought and sold without transparency? I see us as an untapped market, so part of the reason I’m asking is to start a conversation about how to guard and grow our information in the future.

Rating 4.33 out of 5
Tagged with:
 

This week in Seattle is Geek Week (August 13th-22nd), and part of this week’s events is a conference devoted to exploring privacy, technology, and access to information. I’m here to understand what’s going on now, trending topics, and how these movements in privacy affect the trans community.

We have a great need to protect the privacy of our information for a variety of  obvious reasons. Information is currency now, both literally and figuratively. In my mind, it would be beneficial for the trans community to understand this and not get left behind. We are making gains in the legal realm. I think this shows that we’re starting to take control of the words and concepts used to define us. The next step in this evolution is to broaden this out and make sure that we begin to control who profits from our lives and experiences.

I’ll have more as the conference goes on…

Lincoln

Rating 4.00 out of 5
Tagged with:
 
In Australia we have an interesting situation with our current election when recently on a GLBT(I?) radio program the Shadow Attorney General George Brandis promised more than the current government has on improving matters for GLB(T?I?) people by making a commitment to including Sexuality and Gender Identity (maybe, as the Shadow Attorney General counts that as part of Sexuality apparently, but will the legislation?) in federal anti-discrimination legislation. http://www.cpod.org.au/download.php?id=4336 and yet at 5.52 on he says when asked about the ‘Sex Files’ report they’ll have to ‘look carefully’ at the Australian Human Rights Comissions reccomendations even though the report in question had reccomendations far below the Yogyakarta Principles requirements and catered to only parts of the Intersex and Transgender communities needs and that in the most minimal way possible. And it seems that sex marker reassignment is scary for their policies on relationships.

In other words they can’t make it easier to get your documents fixed, to allow Intersex kids to define themselves, to throw out unneccessary sex markers on documents with all the harm they do in all facets of peoples lives because it may make it harder to prevent marriage equality? That does seem to be what he said.

And the reaction to the case that’s mentioned next of a Trans Man’s cyst being denied state medical coverage because he wasn’t classed as a woman anymore but the condition is classed as a womens condition is far from adequate.

Both major parties have ruled out marriage-equality.

Even though the Prime Minister is an unmarried Atheist and her party has a Lesbian Minister for Climate-change and a senator who is  in a relationship with a Trans-man they are so scared of the religious right in marginal electorates that they have said they only support marriage between “a man and a woman”, with the changes they made in recognising relationships they changed the laws that reduced the pensions of elderly and disabled and unemployed same-sex couples who of course previously have been paying the higher tax rates of singles.

The Labor party has promised to streamline the various states and territories anti-discrimination legislation but have not yet promised to include sexuality and gender identity and expression. So that the conservative ‘Liberal’ party have promised this is interesting.. ah but they can’t promise to do it in the first term of course.

Labor has promised funding to address the massive suicide rate of Gays, of Lesbians, of Bisexuals… but what about Transgender Australians who face an attempted suicide rate of 37%-40% far higher than that of GL or B Australians? And what about Intersex whom it seems no-one is even bothering to count? http://www.starobserver.com.au/news/2010/07/27/gillard-to-fund-gay-suicide-prevention/28743 and theres important stuff in the comments about the organisation Beyond Blue. Here’s OII on this http://oiiaustralia.com/australian-labor-action-tackle-suicide/ note the response they got from the government, where they give their reason the most at-risk groups were the ones left off a list of a project that’s meant to prioritise the most at-risk communities!

So it seems that while both major parties do want the votes of the Gay Lesbian and Bisexual community and are willing to compete for those votes it’s very different for Trans and Intersex. Whose lives they aren’t concerned with putting effort into saving let alone improving.

Rating 3.00 out of 5
 

BMH Responds To Transgender Conversation

8/4/2010

Muncie – As has been widely reported in various media, regarding a transgender woman involving her recent experience while seeking services at Ball Memorial Hospital, the patient’s account of what transpired during her visit concerns us deeply and gave us pause.

It prompted us to take action!  Ball Memorial Hospital (BMH) is engaging with Indiana Equality & Indiana Transgender Rights Advocacy Alliance to assist with review of BMH care policies, employee benefits, and diversity training.  BMH is collaborating with both groups to develop a curriculum for employee LGBT awareness training to improve sexual orientation and gender identity awareness in BMH anti-discrimination training.  This will include sensitivity to the sometimes special health care needs of people who are transgender.

Discussions also included Ball Memorial Hospital’s 2010 strategic plan to implement a Diversity Council that will include local community member participation that reflects the varied and diverse community served by our hospital.  The Council will be charged with the development of an inclusive diversity initiative that results in ensuring a culture of respect, trust and engagement.

Ball Memorial Hospital is committed to providing preeminent health care services for all our patients, and to continue its tradition of treating all patients and families with dignity and respect.

To all who have posted on our Facebook page, we thank you for your feedback!

Mike Haley
President & CEO
Ball Memorial Hospital

Rating 3.00 out of 5
Tagged with:
 

This Is H.O.W. names new Executive Director

This Is H.O.W. NAMES New Executive Director

Phoenix, AZ, August 1, 2010:  The Board of Directors for This Is H.O.W., a 501c(3) charitable organization based in Phoenix that provides a transitional living environment for Trangender persons in crisis, has appointed Antonia “Toni” D’orsay as the new Executive Director of the organization and committed to expanding on the services it offers to transgender individuals in the Valley.

“I’m humbled by the honor, and committed to carrying This Is H.O.W.’s mission and the vision of its Founder, Regina Gazelle, forward through these troubled economic times. “  Ms. D’orsay said.

Founder and previous Executive Director Regina Gazelle, expressed support for Ms. D’orsay. “I have absolute faith in Toni,” she said. “She is my personal choice to succeed me, and brings an energy and passion that is matched only by her commitment to the community.”

Ms. Gazelle is moving on towards a new chapter in her life, having started and organized This Is H.O.W., and carrying if through the last four years.  “It’s time for me to move on, to see where else I can contribute.”

Founded in 2006 after ten years of struggle, This Is H.O.W. has assisted over 200 transgender individuals in the Valley with substance abuse and transitional living needs, filling a gap in a minority population that was noted for an unemployment rate twice that of the national average, and an underemployment rate nearly three times the national average in a recent study by the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force (NGLTF).

“The Phoenix Metropolitan area has an estimated population of 3,000 transgender individuals, “ Ms. D’orsay said. “ We need to do more, and I hope to make TIH the centerpiece of a wide ranging set of valleywide programs, in partnership with several other organizations in the valley.”

Ms. D’orsay herself is a graduate of This Is H.O.W., which saved her from homelessness. She has previously served as Assistant Director, Chair of the Board for the organization, and House Manager, during which time she helped to raise funds and improved overall operations.  For the last year she has been engaged in political advocacy work outside of the organization.

Enhanced by Zemanta
Rating 4.00 out of 5
With the Australian election heating up, with Labor now falling behind in some polls, with a distinct chance of a return to a Liberal Party government, with the outrahe about Australias first Woman Prime Minister, first Athiest Prime Minister choosing against same-sex marriage and with even first openly homosexual cabinet minister Penny Wong supporting the same-sex marriage ban decision and with Labor not even willing to commit to including sexuality and gender identity in their federalisation of Australian states diverse anti-discrimination laws it’s worth noticing that the Liberal Party won’t even agree not to use hate-based political ads!
 
TASMANIAN GAY AND LESBIAN RIGHTS GROUP
 
Media Release
Saturday July 31st 2010
LIBS FAIL TO SIGN ELECTION ANTI-HATE PLEDGE
DELANEY VOWS TO CHALLENGE ANY ELECTION HATE MATERIALS
For downloadable photos from pledge signing visit: 
The Liberal Party has again failed to sign a pledge against election hate, despite all other major parties and independents signing the pledge today at Salamanca Market in Hobart.
Today’s pledge signing was a response to election advertising authorised by the Liberal Party and members of the Exclusive Brethren during the 2006 state election, and the Liberal Party and Timber Communities Australia during the 2007 federal election, which vehemently attacked the human rights of gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and intersex (GLBTI) people.
Human rights campaigner, Martine Delaney, who has challenged anti-GLBTI election material before the State Anti-Discrimination Tribunal, securing apologies from members of the Exclusive Brethren and from Timber Communities Australia, said the pledge is designed to set a higher standard for electioneering.
“By showing that a wide range of parties and independents oppose hatred in election campaigns I hope we can bring an end to the kind of electioneering that inflames prejudice against people who already have a hard enough time of it”, she said.
“The Liberal Party has never committed to signing the pledge, and it is deeply disappointing that this election will be no exception.”
“I profoundly hope there will be no material published during this election that hatefully attacks GLBTI people and our human rights, but if there is, I will challenge it before the Anti-Discrimination Tribunal just as I have in the past”, Ms Delaney said.
The Tasmanian Gay and Lesbian Rights Group’s anti-hate pledge was signed by Christine Milne for the Australian Greens, Jonathan Jackson for the ALP, Andrew Wilkie (Indep) and Mel Barnes for the Socialist Alliance. The Australian Democrats, who registered after the pledge was printed, signed a pledge which not only commits the party not to authourise hateful material but to enact stronger laws to combat incitement to hatred.
The Tasmanian Gay and Lesbian Rights Group’s anti-hate pledge was also a feature of 2007 federal election campaign in Tasmanian when it was also signed by all parties except the Liberal Party. 
The TGLRG will also conduct an election forum for the GLBTI community in Hobart on Tuesday evening at which all political parties will be represented including the Liberal Party.
Rating 3.00 out of 5
 

Cisgender Phasionista Phail

Reading the Transgender News today  I see yet another media PHAIL this time from Kelly Cutrone, owner of fashion PR firm People’s Revolution and star of the Bravo reality series “Kell on Earth.”   Apparently ABC News thinks she’s an authority on trans fashion modeling.  I guess they imagine any authority on the fashion industry would be expert when it comes to trans people.

So what does this person say about trans people in the fashion industry?

If there is one industry where people who are gay or different can express themselves, it’s the fashion industry,” Cutrone told ABCNews.com. “Fashion is a place for fantasy and illusion

Every now and then, as I’m reading through news stories and blogs, I come upon trans/homophobia that is so egregious that I just stop and, quite involuntarily, drop my jaw in amazement at the cluelessness or animosity that is being displayed.  This was one of them.  A real WTF moment.  The level of ignorance – if that’s what it was – or vile animosity if it wasn’t, is so blatant that it would be laughable if it weren’t so damned offensive.

Maybe it was ABC News that was taking her out of context.  It certainly isn’t the first time some lazy “news” reporter got stuff wrong now, is it?  Nevertheless once again we see the stigma of “fantasy and illusion,” of the idea that trans women are “really men” (something that really bugs me, as I’ve written before ) and are just out to deceive others for nefarious purposes, the most common lie being  the seduction of men into having homosexual relations  by pretending femininity while remaining male in reality.

It’s an obvious attempt to be certain Lea T remains gendered male, a perfect device to police her “real” gender.  We certainly can’t have a trans fashion model to be equal to the cis women in that industry!

Ms. Cutrone and ABC News won’t be getting a GLAAD letter about this anytime soon, of course.  It’s just an offhand remark in a story about a pre-op trans woman picked to be a fashion model, not a big deal for them, I’m sure.  I also doubt Ms. Cutrone will be reading this or any other blog that calls her on that comment either, unless of course, more than one voice is heard.  Can we get them to see the error?

Rating 3.50 out of 5
 

A guilty pleasure?

OK, I admit it. I haunt the transgender and Gay/Lesbian sections of TOPIX and argue with bigots. I sometimes wonder why I do it. It certainly isn’t the nice people there. One of the more recent replies directed toward me:

See…this is what I am talking about. There is nothing other than opinions here. How can one win or lose. I say that you are freaks. And the majority of people in this world agree with me. So as you do in every other aspect of life, lie to yourself and call yourself a winner. In reality you are still messed up. And for the record, I don’t hate you. I just think that you are messed up freaks. You have done nothing to me to make me hate you. I just choose to stay the F*ck away from freaks like you. And keep my kids away from freaks like you. If my kids ever see you and ask me what that is, I’m telling them that you are a freak and escaped from the bearded lady’s exhibit at the circus. Now go find your d*i*l*d*o and sit on it for a while. You’ll feel better about yourself. Oh…and also…keep up with the affirmation….your doing great for a freak.

This particular poster was at first pushing the “deceitful transsexuals” meme but after I addressed his BS and called it what it was he started descending into the name calling and personal attacks. It’s a common trajectory in those forums. Once in a while you get people who sincerely believe the tripe they are presenting but when the truth is presented, and their ignorance, hypocrisy and prejudice are exposed, they start calling people names.

Part of the reason I answer these people is the belief that there are those who read but do not post there. People who might have more open minds than the haters and who need and benefit from the education I, as an educated trans woman, can provide. I’ve had some feedback from other TOPIX posters that this is the case, but it’s not very often I get such and I sometimes wonder if I’m doing any good at all.

But ya know, maybe I’m not being completely honest here. Maybe I do go there because of that kind of people. In TOPIX I get to answer these bigots which is very gratifying because I can’t answer those who I read about in the news. I can’t fight back against the companies who decide I am not good enough to work for them, not because of my qualifications but because of my medical history. I can’t respond to those who would drag a person to court after their beloved was killed in order to steal an inheritance. I have no way to confront the violent criminals who think it’s appropriate to assault or murder someone because of who they are. I can, however, confront their fellow travelers, the people who think the way they do and behave in the same egregious manner.

So, I guess the payoff is that I get to hit back and I view the pleasure I get from this with a smidgen of guilt. Hitting back usually just provokes another attack. Aggressive confrontation almost always creates a defensive reaction – for some people it is such a strong defensive action that they will begin to argue points they don’t really believe in, just to be able to push back.

I think I’ll keep doing it, however, never mind the guilt. It passes the time. If I had a paying job I would certainly not go there as often, or at all for that matter. I have other things to do that I like to do more. I really do feel I’m providing a valid counterpoint to the prejudice and ignorance, however, and believe my guilt will be counterbalanced by the good I imagine I do there.

Rating 3.00 out of 5
 

Role Models

I was was recently reminded of a conversation I had when ‘coming out’, in which it was suggested that trans folks lack any role models. I couldn’t think of any myself, and I still struggle today. Gay culture is enriched by the likes of Stephen Fry, Ellen Degeneres and Graham Norton; all open about who they are and often successful to boot. Those people peering in on gay culture from the outside can look at such stars (if they so wish) and see positive templates for whatever gay stereotype they may form in their own minds. Those of us looking up to a role model more directly might emulate one example or another, but as a general rule it is those on the outside who seem to change most based on their example.

The closest I think (British) transsexuals come to having such a figure is an archetypical punchline – the ‘middle-aged man in a dress’.

I hopped over to Wikipedia to see whatever vaguely-reliable source it might be for listing transgender people: only Richard O’Brien, Jennifer Finney Boylan, Lauren Harries, Chaz Bono and Calpernia Addams ring any bells:

  • I had no idea that Richard O’Brien even identified as gender-fluid;
  • I only know of Chaz Bono from sensationalised press announcements made a few years ago;
  • I only knew of Calpernia Addams through her YouTube videos until I realised Deep Stealth were involved in the making of Transamerica – her work seems to be entirely trans-focused and not in the mainstream domain;
  • Jennifer Boylan wrote a truly inspirational transgender memoir, but I would not have known about her unless given that book by a friend;
  • and after what Lauren Harries pulled on This Morning I consider her to be an outright embarrassment.

The trouble is, role models are a hard thing to ask for. Just as it is for the gay community, anyone in a position of social power is likely to be quite uncomfortable with ‘coming out’ to the world. Recent news speculation suggests that sport is still quite a homophobic industry, with players being urged to stay closetted in order to avoid damaging their reputations.

Given the violent stigma which still exist for trans people, it’s no surprise that even if we did have a celebrity to look up to, they would not want ‘outing’. Many ordinary folks have strong objections to this too, as stealth (living without disclosure of your previous gender) has a big part to play in many people’s lifestyles – and that should be respected above all else. In short, role models are an excellent thing to have but they must be volunteered – and that takes individual courage.

Why would we need a role model? Such a thing sounds quite shallow, but it is my belief that role models help those on the outside form (at best) a more accurate impression of those in a minority community, and one would hope at the very least for a more positive one. As things stand, the only prior template my parents have had for transgender people is that utterly cheap, comedic punchline. My own transition will (hopefully) help them realise the truth, but I still have to do this in a world which is largely unaware of transsexualism. To know that someone famous has endured what you have and come out stronger for it is a crutch to you and those closest to you, and it goes a long way towards easing any awkward conversations with people who don’t quite understand.

Rating 2.67 out of 5